"點(dian)(dian)“姓(xing)是(shi)(shi)1991年在江蘇南京(jing)一家新創的(de)姓(xing)氏(shi)。該姓(xing)氏(shi)據說《太平圖話姓(xing)氏(shi)綜》上就有收錄,但歷史(shi)上”點(dian)(dian)“是(shi)(shi)“點(dian)(dian)”的(de)繁體字。
據載,在1991年(nian)(nian)江蘇蘇州的一(yi)個典(dian)型的“421家庭”中,出現了姓“點(dian)”的孩(hai)子(zi),這(zhe)個“點(dian)”姓也一(yi)般(ban)被認為是1991年(nian)(nian)所(suo)知(zhi)人數最(zui)少的姓。
關于這個(ge)(ge)(ge)(ge)姓(xing)(xing)(xing),還有一(yi)段(duan)耐人尋(xun)味的(de)(de)故事(shi)。在(zai)(zai)這個(ge)(ge)(ge)(ge)“421家(jia)庭”中有爺(ye)爺(ye)、奶(nai)(nai)奶(nai)(nai)、外公(gong)、外婆四(si)位老人和(he)一(yi)對夫(fu)妻(qi)、一(yi)個(ge)(ge)(ge)(ge)小孩(hai)(hai)。爺(ye)爺(ye)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)蔣,奶(nai)(nai)奶(nai)(nai)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)宋,他(ta)(ta)(ta)們(men)(men)生(sheng)了個(ge)(ge)(ge)(ge)兒(er)(er)子,按照傳(chuan)統(tong)習慣(guan),這兒(er)(er)子也就(jiu)(jiu)承父姓(xing)(xing)(xing)而(er)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)蔣,我們(men)(men)姑且叫他(ta)(ta)(ta)蔣男;外公(gong)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)卞(bian)(bian)(bian),外婆姓(xing)(xing)(xing)沈,他(ta)(ta)(ta)們(men)(men)生(sheng)個(ge)(ge)(ge)(ge)女兒(er)(er),也是依照傳(chuan)統(tong),女兒(er)(er)承父姓(xing)(xing)(xing)而(er)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)卞(bian)(bian)(bian)我們(men)(men)姑且叫她(ta)卞(bian)(bian)(bian)女。蔣男和(he)卞(bian)(bian)(bian)女后來結成夫(fu)妻(qi),之后就(jiu)(jiu)生(sheng)下一(yi)個(ge)(ge)(ge)(ge)男孩(hai)(hai)。這男孩(hai)(hai)的(de)(de)出生(sheng)使全家(jia)都很高興,但在(zai)(zai)讓孩(hai)(hai)子姓(xing)(xing)(xing)什么姓(xing)(xing)(xing)的(de)(de)問題上(shang)出現了分歧(qi)。爺(ye)爺(ye)希望(wang)遵從傳(chuan)統(tong)承其(qi)父姓(xing)(xing)(xing)而(er)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)蔣;外公(gong)認(ren)為舊習慣(guan)應該破除(chu),最好依母姓(xing)(xing)(xing)而(er)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)卞(bian)(bian)(bian);外婆則(ze)反對姓(xing)(xing)(xing)卞(bian)(bian)(bian)一(yi)一(yi)小的(de)(de)時候被(bei)人家(jia)叫“小卞(bian)(bian)(bian)”,大(da)了被(bei)人喊作“大(da)卞(bian)(bian)(bian)”,有把年(nian)紀了也不(bu)過稱個(ge)(ge)(ge)(ge)“老卞(bian)(bian)(bian)”,很不(bu)雅觀,不(bu)如來個(ge)(ge)(ge)(ge)徹(che)底(di)的(de)(de),姓(xing)(xing)(xing)外婆的(de)(de)沈姓(xing)(xing)(xing)。而(er)奶(nai)(nai)奶(nai)(nai)卻說,即使從母姓(xing)(xing)(xing)也應姓(xing)(xing)(xing)宋。全家(jia)四(si)個(ge)(ge)(ge)(ge)姓(xing)(xing)(xing),都想讓這惟一(yi)的(de)(de)男孩(hai)(hai)為自己的(de)(de)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)“接(jie)續香火”。后來,他(ta)(ta)(ta)們(men)(men)覺得“接(jie)續香火”的(de)(de)想法太陳舊,共(gong)同(tong)商議孩(hai)(hai)子取個(ge)(ge)(ge)(ge)新姓(xing)(xing)(xing)“點”。
因為這(zhe)個字的(de)(de)結(jie)構是上(shang)邊(bian)一個占(zhan)(zhan)有(you)的(de)(de)占(zhan)(zhan)字,底下(xia)四點,四點分(fen)別代表蔣、宋、卞、沈四位老人的(de)(de)姓。對老人而言,“點”表示四姓(家)共(gong)同占(zhan)(zhan)有(you)這(zhe)個孩(hai)子(zi);對孩(hai)子(zi)來說,“點”表示占(zhan)(zhan)有(you)四姓老人的(de)(de)共(gong)同關愛(ai)。等商定以后,接著為這(zhe)孩(hai)子(zi)取(qu)名(ming)“點佳浩”,并到戶籍管理(li)部門登記備案,使(shi)他(ta)從此有(you)了合法的(de)(de)名(ming)字。
我們知道它是(shi)一個(ge)新創的姓(xing)(xing)氏。那么,歷史(shi)上(shang)有(you)沒有(you)點(dian)(dian)(dian)姓(xing)(xing)呢(ni)?其(qi)實是(shi)有(you)的,但與這個(ge)點(dian)(dian)(dian)姓(xing)(xing)有(you)所不(bu)(bu)同(tong)。歷史(shi)上(shang)的點(dian)(dian)(dian)姓(xing)(xing)寫(xie)作“點(dian)(dian)(dian)”,是(shi)繁(fan)體,據(ju)說《太平圖話姓(xing)(xing)氏綜》上(shang)就有(you)收錄。“點(dian)(dian)(dian)”字簡(jian)化為“點(dian)(dian)(dian)”,但它與內涵“四家共有(you)”的“點(dian)(dian)(dian)佳(jia)(jia)浩”的“點(dian)(dian)(dian)”,是(shi)有(you)區別的,至少可以說是(shi)姓(xing)(xing)源不(bu)(bu)同(tong)。正(zheng)因如此(ci),“點(dian)(dian)(dian)”姓(xing)(xing)可寫(xie)作“點(dian)(dian)(dian)”,“點(dian)(dian)(dian)佳(jia)(jia)浩”卻不(bu)(bu)能(neng)寫(xie)成(cheng)(cheng)“點(dian)(dian)(dian)佳(jia)(jia)浩”。若把“點(dian)(dian)(dian)佳(jia)(jia)浩”寫(xie)成(cheng)(cheng)“點(dian)(dian)(dian)佳(jia)(jia)浩”,也就把“四姓(xing)(xing)共有(you)”的美好愿望改沒了。
歷史上曾(ceng)有(you)點(dian)(dian)(dian)(dian)姓(xing),但(dan)(dan)寫作“點(dian)(dian)(dian)(dian)”,據(ju)說《太(tai)平圖話姓(xing)氏綜(zong)》上就有(you)收錄(lu)。后來,“點(dian)(dian)(dian)(dian)”簡化為“點(dian)(dian)(dian)(dian)”,但(dan)(dan)內涵與“四姓(xing)共有(you)”的(de)“點(dian)(dian)(dian)(dian)佳(jia)浩(hao)”的(de)“點(dian)(dian)(dian)(dian)”有(you)區(qu)別。“點(dian)(dian)(dian)(dian)”姓(xing)可寫作“點(dian)(dian)(dian)(dian)”,“點(dian)(dian)(dian)(dian)佳(jia)浩(hao)”卻不(bu)能(neng)寫成“點(dian)(dian)(dian)(dian)佳(jia)浩(hao)”,不(bu)然“四姓(xing)共有(you)”的(de)美好愿望就沒了。