"點(dian)“姓是1991年在江蘇南京(jing)一家新創的姓氏。該姓氏據說《太平圖(tu)話(hua)姓氏綜》上就有收錄,但歷史上”點(dian)“是“點(dian)”的繁(fan)體字。
據載,在(zai)1991年江蘇蘇州的(de)一個(ge)典型(xing)的(de)“421家庭”中,出現(xian)了(le)姓“點”的(de)孩(hai)子,這個(ge)“點”姓也一般(ban)被認為是1991年所(suo)知人數最(zui)少的(de)姓。
關(guan)于這個(ge)(ge)(ge)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing),還有一段耐人(ren)尋味的(de)故事。在這個(ge)(ge)(ge)“421家庭(ting)”中有爺爺、奶(nai)(nai)奶(nai)(nai)、外(wai)(wai)公(gong)(gong)、外(wai)(wai)婆四(si)位老人(ren)和(he)一對(dui)夫妻(qi)、一個(ge)(ge)(ge)小(xiao)孩。爺爺姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)蔣(jiang)(jiang),奶(nai)(nai)奶(nai)(nai)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)宋,他(ta)們生(sheng)(sheng)了個(ge)(ge)(ge)兒子,按照傳(chuan)統習慣,這兒子也就承(cheng)父姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)而(er)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)蔣(jiang)(jiang),我們姑且叫(jiao)(jiao)他(ta)蔣(jiang)(jiang)男(nan)(nan);外(wai)(wai)公(gong)(gong)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)卞(bian)(bian)(bian)(bian),外(wai)(wai)婆姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)沈,他(ta)們生(sheng)(sheng)個(ge)(ge)(ge)女兒,也是(shi)依(yi)照傳(chuan)統,女兒承(cheng)父姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)而(er)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)卞(bian)(bian)(bian)(bian)我們姑且叫(jiao)(jiao)她卞(bian)(bian)(bian)(bian)女。蔣(jiang)(jiang)男(nan)(nan)和(he)卞(bian)(bian)(bian)(bian)女后來結成夫妻(qi),之(zhi)后就生(sheng)(sheng)下一個(ge)(ge)(ge)男(nan)(nan)孩。這男(nan)(nan)孩的(de)出(chu)生(sheng)(sheng)使全家都很高興,但在讓(rang)孩子姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)什么(me)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)的(de)問題上出(chu)現(xian)了分(fen)歧。爺爺希望遵從傳(chuan)統承(cheng)其父姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)而(er)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)蔣(jiang)(jiang);外(wai)(wai)公(gong)(gong)認為(wei)舊習慣應(ying)(ying)該破除,最好依(yi)母姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)而(er)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)卞(bian)(bian)(bian)(bian);外(wai)(wai)婆則反對(dui)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)卞(bian)(bian)(bian)(bian)一一小(xiao)的(de)時候(hou)被人(ren)家叫(jiao)(jiao)“小(xiao)卞(bian)(bian)(bian)(bian)”,大了被人(ren)喊作(zuo)“大卞(bian)(bian)(bian)(bian)”,有把年紀(ji)了也不(bu)過稱(cheng)個(ge)(ge)(ge)“老卞(bian)(bian)(bian)(bian)”,很不(bu)雅(ya)觀,不(bu)如來個(ge)(ge)(ge)徹底的(de),姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)外(wai)(wai)婆的(de)沈姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)。而(er)奶(nai)(nai)奶(nai)(nai)卻說,即使從母姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)也應(ying)(ying)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)宋。全家四(si)個(ge)(ge)(ge)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing),都想讓(rang)這惟一的(de)男(nan)(nan)孩為(wei)自己的(de)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)“接(jie)續(xu)香火”。后來,他(ta)們覺得“接(jie)續(xu)香火”的(de)想法太陳舊,共同商議孩子取(qu)個(ge)(ge)(ge)新姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)“點”。
因為這個(ge)字(zi)的結(jie)構是上邊一個(ge)占(zhan)有的占(zhan)字(zi),底下四(si)(si)點,四(si)(si)點分別代表(biao)蔣、宋、卞、沈四(si)(si)位老(lao)人(ren)的姓。對老(lao)人(ren)而(er)言,“點”表(biao)示(shi)四(si)(si)姓(家)共同占(zhan)有這個(ge)孩(hai)子(zi);對孩(hai)子(zi)來說,“點”表(biao)示(shi)占(zhan)有四(si)(si)姓老(lao)人(ren)的共同關(guan)愛。等商定以后,接著為這孩(hai)子(zi)取名“點佳浩”,并到(dao)戶籍管理部門登記(ji)備案(an),使(shi)他(ta)從此有了合(he)法(fa)的名字(zi)。
我們知(zhi)道它是(shi)一(yi)個新(xin)創的(de)(de)(de)姓氏。那(nei)么(me),歷史(shi)上(shang)有(you)(you)沒有(you)(you)點(dian)(dian)(dian)姓呢?其實是(shi)有(you)(you)的(de)(de)(de),但與這(zhe)個點(dian)(dian)(dian)姓有(you)(you)所不同。歷史(shi)上(shang)的(de)(de)(de)點(dian)(dian)(dian)姓寫(xie)作“點(dian)(dian)(dian)”,是(shi)繁體,據說《太(tai)平圖話(hua)姓氏綜》上(shang)就有(you)(you)收錄。“點(dian)(dian)(dian)”字簡化為(wei)“點(dian)(dian)(dian)”,但它與內涵“四家共(gong)有(you)(you)”的(de)(de)(de)“點(dian)(dian)(dian)佳(jia)(jia)浩(hao)(hao)”的(de)(de)(de)“點(dian)(dian)(dian)”,是(shi)有(you)(you)區別(bie)的(de)(de)(de),至(zhi)少可以說是(shi)姓源不同。正因(yin)如此,“點(dian)(dian)(dian)”姓可寫(xie)作“點(dian)(dian)(dian)”,“點(dian)(dian)(dian)佳(jia)(jia)浩(hao)(hao)”卻(que)不能寫(xie)成(cheng)“點(dian)(dian)(dian)佳(jia)(jia)浩(hao)(hao)”。若把“點(dian)(dian)(dian)佳(jia)(jia)浩(hao)(hao)”寫(xie)成(cheng)“點(dian)(dian)(dian)佳(jia)(jia)浩(hao)(hao)”,也(ye)就把“四姓共(gong)有(you)(you)”的(de)(de)(de)美好愿望改(gai)沒了。
歷史上(shang)曾(ceng)有(you)點姓,但寫(xie)作“點”,據說《太(tai)平(ping)圖話姓氏綜》上(shang)就(jiu)有(you)收錄。后來,“點”簡化(hua)為(wei)“點”,但內涵與“四姓共有(you)”的“點佳浩(hao)”的“點”有(you)區別。“點”姓可(ke)寫(xie)作“點”,“點佳浩(hao)”卻不(bu)能(neng)寫(xie)成“點佳浩(hao)”,不(bu)然“四姓共有(you)”的美(mei)好愿望就(jiu)沒了(le)。