"點(dian)(dian)“姓(xing)(xing)(xing)是1991年在江(jiang)蘇南京一家新創的姓(xing)(xing)(xing)氏(shi)。該(gai)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)氏(shi)據說(shuo)《太平圖話姓(xing)(xing)(xing)氏(shi)綜》上就有收錄,但歷史上”點(dian)(dian)“是“點(dian)(dian)”的繁體字(zi)。
據載(zai),在1991年江蘇蘇州的(de)一個典(dian)型(xing)的(de)“421家庭”中,出現了姓“點(dian)”的(de)孩子(zi),這個“點(dian)”姓也一般被認為是(shi)1991年所知(zhi)人數最少的(de)姓。
關于這(zhe)(zhe)個(ge)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing),還(huan)有(you)(you)一(yi)段耐人尋(xun)味的(de)(de)故(gu)事(shi)。在這(zhe)(zhe)個(ge)“421家(jia)庭(ting)”中有(you)(you)爺(ye)爺(ye)、奶奶、外(wai)(wai)公(gong)、外(wai)(wai)婆(po)(po)四位老(lao)人和一(yi)對夫妻、一(yi)個(ge)小孩(hai)。爺(ye)爺(ye)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)蔣(jiang)(jiang),奶奶姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)宋,他(ta)們(men)生(sheng)(sheng)了個(ge)兒子(zi),按照(zhao)傳統(tong)(tong)習慣(guan),這(zhe)(zhe)兒子(zi)也就(jiu)承(cheng)(cheng)父(fu)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)而(er)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)蔣(jiang)(jiang),我們(men)姑(gu)且叫他(ta)蔣(jiang)(jiang)男(nan);外(wai)(wai)公(gong)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)卞(bian),外(wai)(wai)婆(po)(po)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)沈,他(ta)們(men)生(sheng)(sheng)個(ge)女(nv)(nv)兒,也是依照(zhao)傳統(tong)(tong),女(nv)(nv)兒承(cheng)(cheng)父(fu)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)而(er)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)卞(bian)我們(men)姑(gu)且叫她卞(bian)女(nv)(nv)。蔣(jiang)(jiang)男(nan)和卞(bian)女(nv)(nv)后來(lai)(lai)結成夫妻,之后就(jiu)生(sheng)(sheng)下一(yi)個(ge)男(nan)孩(hai)。這(zhe)(zhe)男(nan)孩(hai)的(de)(de)出(chu)生(sheng)(sheng)使(shi)(shi)全家(jia)都(dou)很高興,但在讓孩(hai)子(zi)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)什么姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)的(de)(de)問題上出(chu)現了分歧(qi)。爺(ye)爺(ye)希望遵(zun)從傳統(tong)(tong)承(cheng)(cheng)其父(fu)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)而(er)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)蔣(jiang)(jiang);外(wai)(wai)公(gong)認為(wei)舊(jiu)習慣(guan)應(ying)該破除,最(zui)好(hao)依母姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)而(er)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)卞(bian);外(wai)(wai)婆(po)(po)則反對姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)卞(bian)一(yi)一(yi)小的(de)(de)時候(hou)被人家(jia)叫“小卞(bian)”,大(da)(da)了被人喊作“大(da)(da)卞(bian)”,有(you)(you)把年紀了也不(bu)過(guo)稱個(ge)“老(lao)卞(bian)”,很不(bu)雅觀,不(bu)如來(lai)(lai)個(ge)徹底的(de)(de),姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)外(wai)(wai)婆(po)(po)的(de)(de)沈姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)。而(er)奶奶卻說,即(ji)使(shi)(shi)從母姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)也應(ying)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)宋。全家(jia)四個(ge)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing),都(dou)想讓這(zhe)(zhe)惟一(yi)的(de)(de)男(nan)孩(hai)為(wei)自己的(de)(de)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)“接(jie)續香(xiang)火”。后來(lai)(lai),他(ta)們(men)覺得“接(jie)續香(xiang)火”的(de)(de)想法太陳(chen)舊(jiu),共同(tong)商議孩(hai)子(zi)取個(ge)新姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)“點(dian)”。
因為(wei)這(zhe)個字(zi)的(de)結構是上邊一個占(zhan)(zhan)有的(de)占(zhan)(zhan)字(zi),底下(xia)四(si)(si)點(dian),四(si)(si)點(dian)分別(bie)代表蔣、宋、卞(bian)、沈四(si)(si)位老(lao)人的(de)姓(xing)。對老(lao)人而言,“點(dian)”表示四(si)(si)姓(xing)(家)共(gong)同占(zhan)(zhan)有這(zhe)個孩(hai)(hai)子(zi)(zi);對孩(hai)(hai)子(zi)(zi)來說,“點(dian)”表示占(zhan)(zhan)有四(si)(si)姓(xing)老(lao)人的(de)共(gong)同關愛。等商定(ding)以(yi)后,接著為(wei)這(zhe)孩(hai)(hai)子(zi)(zi)取(qu)名(ming)“點(dian)佳(jia)浩”,并到戶籍管(guan)理(li)部門登記備案,使他從(cong)此有了(le)合法的(de)名(ming)字(zi)。
我們(men)知(zhi)道它(ta)是(shi)一(yi)個(ge)新創的(de)姓氏。那么,歷史上(shang)有(you)(you)沒有(you)(you)點(dian)姓呢?其實是(shi)有(you)(you)的(de),但與這個(ge)點(dian)姓有(you)(you)所(suo)不同(tong)。歷史上(shang)的(de)點(dian)姓寫(xie)作(zuo)“點(dian)”,是(shi)繁體(ti),據(ju)說(shuo)《太平圖話姓氏綜》上(shang)就有(you)(you)收錄。“點(dian)”字簡化為“點(dian)”,但它(ta)與內涵“四家共有(you)(you)”的(de)“點(dian)佳(jia)(jia)浩(hao)”的(de)“點(dian)”,是(shi)有(you)(you)區別的(de),至少可(ke)以說(shuo)是(shi)姓源不同(tong)。正(zheng)因如(ru)此,“點(dian)”姓可(ke)寫(xie)作(zuo)“點(dian)”,“點(dian)佳(jia)(jia)浩(hao)”卻(que)不能寫(xie)成“點(dian)佳(jia)(jia)浩(hao)”。若把“點(dian)佳(jia)(jia)浩(hao)”寫(xie)成“點(dian)佳(jia)(jia)浩(hao)”,也就把“四姓共有(you)(you)”的(de)美好愿望改沒了。
歷史上(shang)曾(ceng)有(you)(you)(you)點(dian)(dian)(dian)姓,但(dan)寫(xie)作“點(dian)(dian)(dian)”,據說(shuo)《太平(ping)圖話姓氏綜(zong)》上(shang)就有(you)(you)(you)收錄。后來,“點(dian)(dian)(dian)”簡化為“點(dian)(dian)(dian)”,但(dan)內涵與“四姓共有(you)(you)(you)”的“點(dian)(dian)(dian)佳(jia)浩”的“點(dian)(dian)(dian)”有(you)(you)(you)區(qu)別。“點(dian)(dian)(dian)”姓可寫(xie)作“點(dian)(dian)(dian)”,“點(dian)(dian)(dian)佳(jia)浩”卻不能寫(xie)成“點(dian)(dian)(dian)佳(jia)浩”,不然(ran)“四姓共有(you)(you)(you)”的美好愿望就沒了。