"點“姓是1991年在(zai)江蘇南京(jing)一(yi)家(jia)新(xin)創(chuang)的(de)姓氏。該姓氏據說《太平(ping)圖話(hua)姓氏綜》上就有收錄,但歷史上”點“是“點”的(de)繁體字。
據(ju)載(zai),在1991年江(jiang)蘇蘇州(zhou)的一個典(dian)型的“421家(jia)庭”中,出(chu)現了姓“點”的孩子,這個“點”姓也一般被認為是1991年所知人數最少(shao)的姓。
關于這個(ge)(ge)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing),還有(you)一(yi)(yi)(yi)段(duan)耐(nai)人(ren)尋味的(de)故(gu)事。在(zai)這個(ge)(ge)“421家(jia)(jia)(jia)庭”中有(you)爺(ye)(ye)爺(ye)(ye)、奶奶、外(wai)公、外(wai)婆(po)四(si)位老人(ren)和(he)一(yi)(yi)(yi)對夫(fu)妻、一(yi)(yi)(yi)個(ge)(ge)小孩(hai)(hai)。爺(ye)(ye)爺(ye)(ye)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)蔣(jiang),奶奶姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)宋,他們(men)生了(le)(le)個(ge)(ge)兒(er)子,按(an)照(zhao)傳統習(xi)慣(guan),這兒(er)子也就承父(fu)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)而姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)蔣(jiang),我(wo)們(men)姑且叫他蔣(jiang)男(nan);外(wai)公姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)卞(bian),外(wai)婆(po)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)沈,他們(men)生個(ge)(ge)女兒(er),也是依照(zhao)傳統,女兒(er)承父(fu)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)而姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)卞(bian)我(wo)們(men)姑且叫她卞(bian)女。蔣(jiang)男(nan)和(he)卞(bian)女后來(lai)結成夫(fu)妻,之后就生下一(yi)(yi)(yi)個(ge)(ge)男(nan)孩(hai)(hai)。這男(nan)孩(hai)(hai)的(de)出生使全家(jia)(jia)(jia)都很(hen)高興(xing),但在(zai)讓(rang)(rang)孩(hai)(hai)子姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)什么姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)的(de)問題上出現了(le)(le)分歧(qi)。爺(ye)(ye)爺(ye)(ye)希望遵從傳統承其父(fu)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)而姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)蔣(jiang);外(wai)公認(ren)為舊習(xi)慣(guan)應該(gai)破(po)除,最好(hao)依母姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)而姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)卞(bian);外(wai)婆(po)則反對姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)卞(bian)一(yi)(yi)(yi)一(yi)(yi)(yi)小的(de)時候被人(ren)家(jia)(jia)(jia)叫“小卞(bian)”,大了(le)(le)被人(ren)喊作(zuo)“大卞(bian)”,有(you)把(ba)年紀(ji)了(le)(le)也不(bu)(bu)過稱個(ge)(ge)“老卞(bian)”,很(hen)不(bu)(bu)雅觀,不(bu)(bu)如來(lai)個(ge)(ge)徹底(di)的(de),姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)外(wai)婆(po)的(de)沈姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)。而奶奶卻說,即使從母姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)也應姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)宋。全家(jia)(jia)(jia)四(si)個(ge)(ge)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing),都想讓(rang)(rang)這惟(wei)一(yi)(yi)(yi)的(de)男(nan)孩(hai)(hai)為自己的(de)姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)“接(jie)續香(xiang)火”。后來(lai),他們(men)覺得“接(jie)續香(xiang)火”的(de)想法太陳舊,共同商(shang)議(yi)孩(hai)(hai)子取個(ge)(ge)新姓(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)“點(dian)”。
因(yin)為(wei)這(zhe)個字的結構是上(shang)邊一個占(zhan)有(you)(you)的占(zhan)字,底下(xia)四點(dian)(dian)(dian),四點(dian)(dian)(dian)分別(bie)代(dai)表蔣、宋、卞、沈(shen)四位老(lao)人的姓。對老(lao)人而(er)言,“點(dian)(dian)(dian)”表示四姓(家(jia))共同占(zhan)有(you)(you)這(zhe)個孩子(zi)(zi);對孩子(zi)(zi)來說,“點(dian)(dian)(dian)”表示占(zhan)有(you)(you)四姓老(lao)人的共同關愛。等商定以后,接著(zhu)為(wei)這(zhe)孩子(zi)(zi)取名“點(dian)(dian)(dian)佳浩”,并(bing)到(dao)戶(hu)籍(ji)管(guan)理部門登記(ji)備案,使他從此有(you)(you)了合法(fa)的名字。
我們知道它(ta)是一(yi)個新創的(de)姓(xing)(xing)氏。那么,歷(li)史上有(you)(you)沒有(you)(you)點(dian)(dian)(dian)姓(xing)(xing)呢?其(qi)實是有(you)(you)的(de),但與這(zhe)個點(dian)(dian)(dian)姓(xing)(xing)有(you)(you)所不同。歷(li)史上的(de)點(dian)(dian)(dian)姓(xing)(xing)寫作(zuo)“點(dian)(dian)(dian)”,是繁體,據說《太平圖話姓(xing)(xing)氏綜》上就(jiu)有(you)(you)收錄(lu)。“點(dian)(dian)(dian)”字簡(jian)化為“點(dian)(dian)(dian)”,但它(ta)與內涵“四家共有(you)(you)”的(de)“點(dian)(dian)(dian)佳(jia)浩(hao)”的(de)“點(dian)(dian)(dian)”,是有(you)(you)區別(bie)的(de),至少可(ke)(ke)以說是姓(xing)(xing)源不同。正因如此,“點(dian)(dian)(dian)”姓(xing)(xing)可(ke)(ke)寫作(zuo)“點(dian)(dian)(dian)”,“點(dian)(dian)(dian)佳(jia)浩(hao)”卻不能寫成(cheng)“點(dian)(dian)(dian)佳(jia)浩(hao)”。若把(ba)“點(dian)(dian)(dian)佳(jia)浩(hao)”寫成(cheng)“點(dian)(dian)(dian)佳(jia)浩(hao)”,也就(jiu)把(ba)“四姓(xing)(xing)共有(you)(you)”的(de)美好愿望改沒了(le)。
歷史上曾(ceng)有點(dian)(dian)(dian)姓(xing)(xing),但寫(xie)作“點(dian)(dian)(dian)”,據(ju)說《太平圖話姓(xing)(xing)氏綜(zong)》上就有收(shou)錄。后來(lai),“點(dian)(dian)(dian)”簡化為“點(dian)(dian)(dian)”,但內涵與“四(si)姓(xing)(xing)共有”的“點(dian)(dian)(dian)佳(jia)浩”的“點(dian)(dian)(dian)”有區(qu)別。“點(dian)(dian)(dian)”姓(xing)(xing)可(ke)寫(xie)作“點(dian)(dian)(dian)”,“點(dian)(dian)(dian)佳(jia)浩”卻不(bu)能寫(xie)成“點(dian)(dian)(dian)佳(jia)浩”,不(bu)然“四(si)姓(xing)(xing)共有”的美好愿望(wang)就沒了。