一、正確認識性用品

人們(men)應當消除對(dui)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)用(yong)(yong)品(pin)的(de)認(ren)識誤(wu)區。生(sheng)活(huo)(huo)中(zhong)有人誤(wu)認(ren)為使(shi)用(yong)(yong)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)用(yong)(yong)品(pin)僅僅是(shi)為了滿足自慰，會傷害(hai)伴侶(lv)的(de)感(gan)情和傷害(hai)自己的(de)身體等(deng)。事實上，性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)用(yong)(yong)品(pin)的(de)使(shi)用(yong)(yong)有諸多好處(chu)。在(zai)生(sheng)理發育成熟而(er)又沒有性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)伴侶(lv)的(de)情況下(xia)，使(shi)用(yong)(yong)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)用(yong)(yong)品(pin)是(shi)正(zheng)常的(de)、緩解性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)饑渴、釋放(fang)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)緊(jin)張(zhang)的(de)一(yi)種方(fang)式，能(neng)提供性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)享受，避免不(bu)(bu)良性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)行(xing)為，減少性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)病傳(chuan)播。如果(guo)夫妻一(yi)起共同使(shi)用(yong)(yong)，可以(yi)(yi)增(zeng)添性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)生(sheng)活(huo)(huo)情趣(qu)，密切伴侶(lv)關(guan)系(xi)，增(zeng)加彼(bi)此(ci)信任，提升兩(liang)人的(de)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)生(sheng)活(huo)(huo)質量。性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)欲(yu)較(jiao)(jiao)強者，性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)伴侶(lv)不(bu)(bu)能(neng)滿足時(shi)，借以(yi)(yi)釋放(fang)多余(yu)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)能(neng)量從(cong)而(er)穩定相互關(guan)系(xi)。性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)功能(neng)較(jiao)(jiao)差者可通過(guo)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)具(ju)(ju)強烈刺激，影(ying)響(xiang)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)閾值，達(da)(da)到性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)高潮，獲得性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)滿足。當性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)生(sheng)活(huo)(huo)未能(neng)盡興時(shi)，可借助性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)具(ju)(ju)刺激、輔助，達(da)(da)到性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)高潮。而(er)處(chu)于絕經期的(de)女(nv)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)可以(yi)(yi)通過(guo)使(shi)用(yong)(yong)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)用(yong)(yong)品(pin)保持(chi)陰道彈性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)，避免小便(bian)失禁和其他(ta)疾病。對(dui)男性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)陽痿、女(nv)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)冷感(gan)患者可以(yi)(yi)用(yong)(yong)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)用(yong)(yong)具(ju)(ju)進行(xing)誘(you)導或(huo)治療(liao)。配偶一(yi)方(fang)有病或(huo)致殘、寡居而(er)無(wu)法進行(xing)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)生(sheng)活(huo)(huo)者，性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)具(ju)(ju)是(shi)自慰工具(ju)(ju)。

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二、正確使用性用品

不(bu)可(ke)否認性用(yong)(yong)品(pin)(pin)能(neng)帶來不(bu)同程度的(de)(de)快感(gan)乃至(zhi)性高潮，的(de)(de)確解決了部分人的(de)(de)性壓(ya)抑(yi)、性煩惱和性焦慮。但它畢竟(jing)只是輔助(zhu)工(gong)具(ju)，不(bu)能(neng)完全(quan)代替性伴(ban)侶，更不(bu)能(neng)代替伴(ban)侶之間的(de)(de)愛(ai)撫和溫存。過(guo)(guo)分依賴器(qi)具(ju)，會導致對正常的(de)(de)性生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)活逐漸產(chan)(chan)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)厭惡情緒(xu)。如(ru)果頻(pin)繁使(shi)用(yong)(yong)性用(yong)(yong)品(pin)(pin)，或使(shi)用(yong)(yong)性用(yong)(yong)品(pin)(pin)強度過(guo)(guo)大，容易(yi)(yi)引起陰道生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)殖器(qi)損傷、出血(xue)和感(gan)染(ran)。如(ru)果青春年少者過(guo)(guo)早使(shi)用(yong)(yong)性用(yong)(yong)品(pin)(pin)，容易(yi)(yi)產(chan)(chan)生(sheng)(sheng)(sheng)前列腺炎(yan)、性功能(neng)障礙、性欲下降等一系(xi)列后遺癥。

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三、節制使用性用品

不要(yao)(yao)(yao)太過(guo)(guo)頻(pin)繁使(shi)(shi)用(yong)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)用(yong)品(pin)(pin)，以(yi)(yi)免導(dao)致身體(ti)‘性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)興(xing)奮”敏感(gan)度(du)下降，性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)喚起(qi)(qi)會(hui)越(yue)來越(yue)難。長期(qi)、經常(chang)使(shi)(shi)用(yong)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)用(yong)品(pin)(pin)，有的(de)(de)過(guo)(guo)分追(zhui)求刺(ci)激(ji)、快感(gan)而(er)(er)挑選(xuan)那(nei)些(xie)稀(xi)奇古(gu)怪的(de)(de)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)用(yong)品(pin)(pin)，并長期(qi)過(guo)(guo)度(du)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)興(xing)奮和強烈(lie)刺(ci)激(ji)，導(dao)致身體(ti)已經習慣了強刺(ci)激(ji)，反(fan)而(er)(er)對一般性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)的(de)(de)正(zheng)常(chang)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)生(sheng)(sheng)活(huo)刺(ci)激(ji)難起(qi)(qi)反(fan)應，必須一次比一次刺(ci)激(ji)得(de)更夸張、猛烈(lie)才能讓人體(ti)興(xing)奮起(qi)(qi)來。因(yin)此，不能沉迷于性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)用(yong)品(pin)(pin)的(de)(de)強烈(lie)刺(ci)激(ji)，要(yao)(yao)(yao)適可而(er)(er)止，盡(jin)量克制自己，把注意力分散在工(gong)作或者(zhe)其他生(sheng)(sheng)活(huo)愛好上。雖(sui)然使(shi)(shi)用(yong)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)用(yong)品(pin)(pin)以(yi)(yi)增加性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)生(sheng)(sheng)活(huo)的(de)(de)趣(qu)味性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)，但是專家認為，性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)功能正(zheng)常(chang)、性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)生(sheng)(sheng)活(huo)和諧(xie)的(de)(de)人并不需要(yao)(yao)(yao)使(shi)(shi)用(yong)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)用(yong)品(pin)(pin)就可獲得(de)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)滿足。

四、正確選擇性用品

要(yao)選擇合(he)(he)格的(de)、優質的(de)性(xing)用(yong)(yong)(yong)品，并(bing)注意衛生。面(mian)對市場上奇形怪(guai)狀(zhuang)的(de)性(xing)用(yong)(yong)(yong)品，一(yi)定要(yao)選擇那(nei)些合(he)(he)格的(de)、知名度(du)高的(de)優質產(chan)品，如有合(he)(he)格證、質地柔軟、表面(mian)光潔，事后(hou)要(yao)清洗干凈，并(bing)定期消(xiao)毒以保證衛生。性(xing)用(yong)(yong)(yong)品僅限個人和(he)伴侶共同(tong)使(shi)用(yong)(yong)(yong)，不(bu)得借用(yong)(yong)(yong)或轉讓；不(bu)可以放在陰暗潮濕或小孩(hai)看到和(he)拿到的(de)地方。

五、協商使用性用品

最(zui)(zui)好能(neng)雙方經(jing)過溝(gou)通(tong)，形成共(gong)識，獲得(de)對方的(de)支持一(yi)起共(gong)同使(shi)用(yong)(yong)(yong)性(xing)用(yong)(yong)(yong)品。性(xing)用(yong)(yong)(yong)品可以給人帶來高潮(chao)，但不能(neng)給人帶來愛撫(fu)，所以它根本不能(neng)取代伴侶，如(ru)果自己決定使(shi)用(yong)(yong)(yong)，會給伴侶造成心理壓力，有的(de)會心生厭惡，反而(er)會影(ying)響(xiang)夫妻關系。因(yin)此相(xiang)互溝(gou)通(tong)，相(xiang)互體諒，相(xiang)互支持，最(zui)(zui)好能(neng)協商一(yi)致共(gong)同使(shi)用(yong)(yong)(yong)。