一、正確認識性用品
人們應(ying)當消除(chu)對性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)用(yong)(yong)(yong)品的認識誤區(qu)。生活(huo)中有(you)(you)人誤認為(wei)使(shi)(shi)用(yong)(yong)(yong)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)用(yong)(yong)(yong)品僅僅是(shi)為(wei)了滿(man)(man)足自慰,會傷害伴侶(lv)的感(gan)情和傷害自己的身體等(deng)。事(shi)實(shi)上(shang),性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)用(yong)(yong)(yong)品的使(shi)(shi)用(yong)(yong)(yong)有(you)(you)諸多(duo)好(hao)處(chu)。在生理發育成熟而又沒有(you)(you)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)伴侶(lv)的情況(kuang)下,使(shi)(shi)用(yong)(yong)(yong)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)用(yong)(yong)(yong)品是(shi)正常的、緩(huan)解性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)饑渴、釋放性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)緊張的一種(zhong)方式,能(neng)提(ti)供性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)享受,避免不(bu)良性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)行(xing)(xing)為(wei),減(jian)少性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)病(bing)傳播(bo)。如果夫(fu)妻一起(qi)共同使(shi)(shi)用(yong)(yong)(yong),可(ke)以(yi)增(zeng)添性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)生活(huo)情趣,密切伴侶(lv)關系(xi)(xi),增(zeng)加彼(bi)此信任,提(ti)升兩人的性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)生活(huo)質量。性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)欲較(jiao)強者,性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)伴侶(lv)不(bu)能(neng)滿(man)(man)足時,借以(yi)釋放多(duo)余性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)能(neng)量從(cong)而穩定相互(hu)關系(xi)(xi)。性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)功(gong)能(neng)較(jiao)差者可(ke)通過性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)具(ju)強烈刺激(ji),影(ying)響性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)閾值,達(da)到性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)高潮(chao),獲(huo)得(de)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)滿(man)(man)足。當性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)生活(huo)未能(neng)盡興時,可(ke)借助性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)具(ju)刺激(ji)、輔助,達(da)到性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)高潮(chao)。而處(chu)于(yu)絕經期(qi)的女(nv)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)可(ke)以(yi)通過使(shi)(shi)用(yong)(yong)(yong)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)用(yong)(yong)(yong)品保持(chi)陰道彈性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing),避免小便失禁和其(qi)他疾病(bing)。對男性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)陽痿、女(nv)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)冷(leng)感(gan)患(huan)者可(ke)以(yi)用(yong)(yong)(yong)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)用(yong)(yong)(yong)具(ju)進行(xing)(xing)誘導(dao)或治療(liao)。配偶(ou)一方有(you)(you)病(bing)或致殘、寡(gua)居(ju)而無(wu)法(fa)進行(xing)(xing)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)生活(huo)者,性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)具(ju)是(shi)自慰工具(ju)。
二、正確使用性用品
不(bu)(bu)可(ke)否認(ren)性(xing)(xing)用(yong)品能(neng)(neng)(neng)帶(dai)來(lai)不(bu)(bu)同(tong)程度的(de)快感(gan)乃至性(xing)(xing)高潮,的(de)確解決了部分(fen)人的(de)性(xing)(xing)壓抑、性(xing)(xing)煩惱(nao)和(he)性(xing)(xing)焦慮。但它畢(bi)竟只是(shi)輔助工具(ju),不(bu)(bu)能(neng)(neng)(neng)完(wan)全代替(ti)性(xing)(xing)伴侶,更不(bu)(bu)能(neng)(neng)(neng)代替(ti)伴侶之間的(de)愛撫(fu)和(he)溫存。過分(fen)依賴器具(ju),會導(dao)致對正常的(de)性(xing)(xing)生(sheng)活(huo)逐漸(jian)產生(sheng)厭(yan)惡情緒。如(ru)果頻(pin)繁使(shi)用(yong)性(xing)(xing)用(yong)品,或使(shi)用(yong)性(xing)(xing)用(yong)品強(qiang)度過大,容易(yi)引起(qi)陰道生(sheng)殖器損傷、出血和(he)感(gan)染。如(ru)果青春年少者過早使(shi)用(yong)性(xing)(xing)用(yong)品,容易(yi)產生(sheng)前列腺炎(yan)、性(xing)(xing)功能(neng)(neng)(neng)障礙(ai)、性(xing)(xing)欲下降等一系列后遺癥(zheng)。
三、節制使用性用品
不(bu)要太過頻繁使用(yong)性(xing)(xing)(xing)用(yong)品(pin),以免導致身體(ti)‘性(xing)(xing)(xing)興奮(fen)”敏感度下降,性(xing)(xing)(xing)喚起會越(yue)來(lai)越(yue)難(nan)。長(chang)期(qi)、經常(chang)使用(yong)性(xing)(xing)(xing)用(yong)品(pin),有(you)的過分追(zhui)求刺(ci)激(ji)、快感而挑(tiao)選那(nei)些(xie)稀奇古(gu)怪的性(xing)(xing)(xing)用(yong)品(pin),并(bing)長(chang)期(qi)過度性(xing)(xing)(xing)興奮(fen)和強(qiang)烈(lie)刺(ci)激(ji),導致身體(ti)已經習慣了強(qiang)刺(ci)激(ji),反(fan)(fan)而對(dui)一般性(xing)(xing)(xing)的正常(chang)性(xing)(xing)(xing)生(sheng)活(huo)刺(ci)激(ji)難(nan)起反(fan)(fan)應(ying),必須(xu)一次比一次刺(ci)激(ji)得更夸張、猛烈(lie)才能(neng)讓(rang)人體(ti)興奮(fen)起來(lai)。因此,不(bu)能(neng)沉迷于性(xing)(xing)(xing)用(yong)品(pin)的強(qiang)烈(lie)刺(ci)激(ji),要適可(ke)而止,盡量(liang)克制自己,把注意力(li)分散在工(gong)作或者其他生(sheng)活(huo)愛好上(shang)。雖然使用(yong)性(xing)(xing)(xing)用(yong)品(pin)以增(zeng)加性(xing)(xing)(xing)生(sheng)活(huo)的趣味性(xing)(xing)(xing),但是專家認(ren)為,性(xing)(xing)(xing)功能(neng)正常(chang)、性(xing)(xing)(xing)生(sheng)活(huo)和諧的人并(bing)不(bu)需要使用(yong)性(xing)(xing)(xing)用(yong)品(pin)就可(ke)獲得性(xing)(xing)(xing)滿足。
四、正確選擇性用品
要(yao)選擇(ze)(ze)合格(ge)的(de)(de)、優(you)質的(de)(de)性用(yong)(yong)品(pin)(pin),并(bing)注意衛生。面對(dui)市場上奇形怪狀(zhuang)的(de)(de)性用(yong)(yong)品(pin)(pin),一定要(yao)選擇(ze)(ze)那些合格(ge)的(de)(de)、知名度高(gao)的(de)(de)優(you)質產品(pin)(pin),如有合格(ge)證(zheng)、質地柔軟、表面光(guang)潔,事后要(yao)清洗干凈,并(bing)定期消毒(du)以保證(zheng)衛生。性用(yong)(yong)品(pin)(pin)僅(jin)限個(ge)人(ren)和伴侶共(gong)同使用(yong)(yong),不得(de)借(jie)用(yong)(yong)或轉讓;不可以放在陰暗潮濕(shi)或小孩看(kan)到和拿到的(de)(de)地方(fang)。
五、協商使用性用品
最好能雙方(fang)經過溝通,形成共識,獲(huo)得對方(fang)的支(zhi)持(chi)一起共同使(shi)用(yong)性用(yong)品。性用(yong)品可以給(gei)人帶來高潮,但不能給(gei)人帶來愛撫(fu),所以它根本不能取代伴侶(lv),如(ru)果自己決定使(shi)用(yong),會給(gei)伴侶(lv)造(zao)成心(xin)理壓力,有的會心(xin)生厭(yan)惡,反而會影響夫妻關系。因此相(xiang)互(hu)溝通,相(xiang)互(hu)體諒,相(xiang)互(hu)支(zhi)持(chi),最好能協商一致共同使(shi)用(yong)。
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