一、正確認識性用品

人們應當消除對性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)用(yong)(yong)(yong)品(pin)(pin)(pin)的(de)認識(shi)誤區(qu)。生(sheng)活中有(you)人誤認為使(shi)用(yong)(yong)(yong)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)用(yong)(yong)(yong)品(pin)(pin)(pin)僅僅是為了滿足(zu)(zu)自慰(wei)，會傷害(hai)伴(ban)(ban)侶(lv)的(de)感(gan)情和(he)(he)傷害(hai)自己的(de)身(shen)體等(deng)。事(shi)實上，性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)用(yong)(yong)(yong)品(pin)(pin)(pin)的(de)使(shi)用(yong)(yong)(yong)有(you)諸(zhu)多(duo)好處(chu)(chu)。在生(sheng)理發育成熟而(er)(er)又沒(mei)有(you)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)伴(ban)(ban)侶(lv)的(de)情況下，使(shi)用(yong)(yong)(yong)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)用(yong)(yong)(yong)品(pin)(pin)(pin)是正常(chang)的(de)、緩(huan)解性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)饑渴、釋放性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)緊張(zhang)的(de)一種(zhong)方式，能(neng)(neng)提供性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)享(xiang)受，避(bi)免(mian)不良性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)行(xing)為，減(jian)少(shao)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)病(bing)(bing)傳播。如果夫妻一起(qi)共同(tong)使(shi)用(yong)(yong)(yong)，可(ke)以(yi)增添性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)生(sheng)活情趣(qu)，密(mi)切伴(ban)(ban)侶(lv)關系(xi)，增加彼(bi)此(ci)信任，提升兩人的(de)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)生(sheng)活質量。性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)欲較(jiao)強者，性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)伴(ban)(ban)侶(lv)不能(neng)(neng)滿足(zu)(zu)時，借以(yi)釋放多(duo)余性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)能(neng)(neng)量從而(er)(er)穩定相互關系(xi)。性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)功能(neng)(neng)較(jiao)差(cha)者可(ke)通過(guo)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)具(ju)(ju)強烈刺(ci)激，影響性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)閾值，達到性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)高潮，獲得性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)滿足(zu)(zu)。當性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)生(sheng)活未能(neng)(neng)盡興時，可(ke)借助性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)具(ju)(ju)刺(ci)激、輔助，達到性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)高潮。而(er)(er)處(chu)(chu)于絕經期的(de)女性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)可(ke)以(yi)通過(guo)使(shi)用(yong)(yong)(yong)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)用(yong)(yong)(yong)品(pin)(pin)(pin)保(bao)持陰道彈性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)，避(bi)免(mian)小便失禁和(he)(he)其(qi)他(ta)疾病(bing)(bing)。對男(nan)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)陽痿、女性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)冷感(gan)患者可(ke)以(yi)用(yong)(yong)(yong)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)用(yong)(yong)(yong)具(ju)(ju)進行(xing)誘導或(huo)治療。配(pei)偶一方有(you)病(bing)(bing)或(huo)致(zhi)殘(can)、寡(gua)居而(er)(er)無法進行(xing)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)生(sheng)活者，性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)具(ju)(ju)是自慰(wei)工具(ju)(ju)。

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二、正確使用性用品

不可(ke)否認性(xing)(xing)(xing)用品能(neng)(neng)帶來不同(tong)程(cheng)度的(de)(de)快(kuai)感乃至性(xing)(xing)(xing)高潮，的(de)(de)確解決(jue)了(le)部分(fen)人的(de)(de)性(xing)(xing)(xing)壓抑、性(xing)(xing)(xing)煩惱和(he)性(xing)(xing)(xing)焦慮。但它畢竟只(zhi)是(shi)輔(fu)助(zhu)工(gong)具，不能(neng)(neng)完全代(dai)替(ti)性(xing)(xing)(xing)伴侶，更不能(neng)(neng)代(dai)替(ti)伴侶之間的(de)(de)愛撫和(he)溫存。過分(fen)依賴器具，會導致對正常的(de)(de)性(xing)(xing)(xing)生(sheng)活逐漸(jian)產生(sheng)厭(yan)惡情緒(xu)。如(ru)果(guo)頻繁使(shi)用性(xing)(xing)(xing)用品，或使(shi)用性(xing)(xing)(xing)用品強度過大(da)，容易(yi)引(yin)起陰道(dao)生(sheng)殖(zhi)器損傷、出血(xue)和(he)感染(ran)。如(ru)果(guo)青春年(nian)少者(zhe)過早使(shi)用性(xing)(xing)(xing)用品，容易(yi)產生(sheng)前列(lie)腺(xian)炎、性(xing)(xing)(xing)功能(neng)(neng)障礙、性(xing)(xing)(xing)欲下降等一系列(lie)后遺癥。

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三、節制使用性用品

不要(yao)太過頻繁使用(yong)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)用(yong)品(pin)(pin)，以(yi)免(mian)導致身體‘性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)興(xing)(xing)(xing)奮”敏感度(du)下降(jiang)，性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)喚起會越來越難(nan)。長(chang)(chang)期(qi)、經(jing)常(chang)(chang)使用(yong)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)用(yong)品(pin)(pin)，有的過分追求刺激(ji)、快感而(er)挑選那些(xie)稀奇古怪的性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)用(yong)品(pin)(pin)，并(bing)長(chang)(chang)期(qi)過度(du)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)興(xing)(xing)(xing)奮和強(qiang)烈刺激(ji)，導致身體已(yi)經(jing)習慣了強(qiang)刺激(ji)，反而(er)對一般性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)的正(zheng)常(chang)(chang)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)生活(huo)刺激(ji)難(nan)起反應，必須(xu)一次(ci)比一次(ci)刺激(ji)得(de)更夸張、猛烈才能(neng)(neng)讓(rang)人體興(xing)(xing)(xing)奮起來。因(yin)此(ci)，不能(neng)(neng)沉迷于(yu)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)用(yong)品(pin)(pin)的強(qiang)烈刺激(ji)，要(yao)適可而(er)止，盡量克(ke)制自己，把(ba)注意力分散在工作或者(zhe)其他生活(huo)愛好上(shang)。雖(sui)然使用(yong)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)用(yong)品(pin)(pin)以(yi)增加性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)生活(huo)的趣味性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)，但(dan)是專(zhuan)家認為，性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)功能(neng)(neng)正(zheng)常(chang)(chang)、性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)生活(huo)和諧的人并(bing)不需(xu)要(yao)使用(yong)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)用(yong)品(pin)(pin)就可獲得(de)性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)滿足。

四、正確選擇性用品

要選擇合格的(de)(de)、優(you)質的(de)(de)性用品，并(bing)注意衛(wei)生(sheng)。面對市場上奇形怪(guai)狀的(de)(de)性用品，一定要選擇那些合格的(de)(de)、知名度高的(de)(de)優(you)質產品，如有合格證、質地(di)柔軟(ruan)、表面光潔，事后要清洗干凈，并(bing)定期消(xiao)毒(du)以保證衛(wei)生(sheng)。性用品僅限(xian)個人和伴侶共同使用，不得借(jie)用或轉讓(rang)；不可以放(fang)在陰暗潮濕(shi)或小孩看到(dao)和拿到(dao)的(de)(de)地(di)方。

五、協商使用性用品

最好能(neng)雙方(fang)經過溝通，形成共(gong)識，獲得對方(fang)的(de)支持(chi)一(yi)起(qi)共(gong)同使用(yong)(yong)性用(yong)(yong)品(pin)。性用(yong)(yong)品(pin)可以(yi)給(gei)人(ren)帶來高潮(chao)，但(dan)不(bu)能(neng)給(gei)人(ren)帶來愛撫，所以(yi)它根(gen)本不(bu)能(neng)取代伴侶(lv)，如果自己決定使用(yong)(yong)，會給(gei)伴侶(lv)造成心理壓力，有的(de)會心生厭(yan)惡，反而(er)會影響夫妻關系。因此相(xiang)互(hu)溝通，相(xiang)互(hu)體諒，相(xiang)互(hu)支持(chi)，最好能(neng)協商一(yi)致(zhi)共(gong)同使用(yong)(yong)。